or get a free consultation<\/u><\/small><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n You: \u201cTo each his own. But I\u2019m used to deciding for myself what cosmetics to use. I like it. I suggest not to discuss my appearance. “<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A friend: “Tabitha, this skirt does not suit you.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You: “Thank you for providing your opinion, but I did not ask for it.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
With your partner, it is also important to indicate that you do not like something before you accumulate a critical mass of dissatisfaction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Husband: “You are acting like a fool!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You: \u201cYou can’t talk to me like that. If you don’t like something, choose other words.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Wife: “And where are you going?”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You: \u201cI don’t like it when you ask where I am going and when I will return as if you control and do not trust me. I do not like it. I wish you didn’t do that. What can I do for this to stop? “<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There are phrases you can utilize as a shield. They can be used to separate the words of the manipulator from yourself as if you are hitting a ball flying towards you. \u201cI value our relationship and want to invest in it. But each of us has our own needs and desires, as well as the right to satisfy them. “<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cI do not accept accusations that I am to blame for your poor health. I don’t think this is my fault.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
“I’m sorry you were expecting something else.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The most important thing in upholding boundaries is to feel entitled to defend them. And you do have the right to point out what you are uncomfortable with. If you do not see yourself as a separate person with your own needs and desires, any phrases you say will sound unconvincing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The main thing is to start. And everything will work out!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/br>
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