This question tops the list of main topics about relationships. It seems the answer is obvious: wherever there are people. Ah… If it was that simple, there wouldn’t be an epidemic of loneliness on the planet.
The “where can I meet people?” question is the strongest indicator of communication problems. If this thought torments you, you are really confused and can’t figure out where to run to meet love, then something is broken in the field of communication. This can be either a banal lack of skills, or a deeper problem. It’s called the fear of relationships. Sometimes it can pretend to hide behind your business and a lot of work. You may say that you have no time for romance. We often hear such arguments from residents of big cities. In fact, it shows that their reasons are all imaginary and there’s a real problem hiding behind them.
Anyway, we have prepared a list of places where the couples we interviewed met. It will definitely not be superfluous.
The most important rule! The place should be really interesting to you. It is useless to go to a business breakfast if you are a creative person and you just go there to meet a Gazprom shareholder. This will just look ridiculous. And you won’t be able to relax and express yourself. Choose only those options, which are close to you. You need a place where you can feel organic, where you will feel curious and entertaining to talk to people. In an exciting environment, without too much stress, you will open up. In such a case, it’s difficult to remain invisible.
It can be something related to your hobby. It can be something that you always wanted to try.
Well, let’s get started.
- Collective games
Mafia, Monopoly, team quests and many other things. Many big cities have communities where people meet to play or have an adventure. As a rule, they have groups in social networks, so you need to search for them.
- Hobbies
It can be drawing, modeling, cooking classes, and so on. Yes, people of both sexes come there and enjoy their time. For example, the popular paint-parties (when people gather in a restaurant, draw and communicate with each other) are one of the best places to find your perfect partner.
- Sports
From the gym to marathons or just weekly collective races in parks (they are now held by many brands). If you like extreme activities, just go skiing, snowboarding and try to discover the world of karting.
- Self-development
You have a really huge variety of options. There are courses and trainings of all kinds. Choose one in the field of business, creativity, psychology, foreign languages, and even first aid and extreme driving.
- Creativity
Choose theater, music and dance studios, schools of photography, films, perfume, art history lectures.
- Traveling
There are many opportunities at every step. Waiting rooms, aircraft, new cities and countries. The main thing is to learn the language, and then the geography of your opportunities will expand significantly. Don’t want to go alone? There are many services for group tours and search for travel companions is extremely popular. Use this opportunity.
- Volunteering
This is a common cause and it really brings us together and helps us to discover each other. Volunteering has many faces. You can help shelters, you can do charity events, you can take part in the search for missing people.
- Cultural (and not so much) events
How can we avoid this category? We are talking about concerts, parties, presentations, tastings, exhibitions, etc. This category also includes cafes and restaurants.
Arm yourself with a smile and go ahead.
If you live in a small city and nothing particularly interesting happens there, why not to take the initiative and become the person around whom different people will unite? Think about it☺
