We suggest that your partner and you play a game that will help you learn something new about each other and become closer. To have an open and honest conversation, make space for trust and be ready not only to ask questions, but to open up as well. Trust and sincerity are a two-way thing.
Some answers will surprise you, while others will make you smile. Such question games allow you to touch on subjects you don’t normally talk about in your everyday life. So, let’s go.
Questions about your partner’s personality:
1. What 5 adjectives would you choose to describe yourself? What 5 verbs would you choose?
2. Who could play the part of your dark alter ego?
3. What is your most annoying trait?
4. What kind of person would you never want to be?
5. What is your wildest dream?
6. What will you never talk about?
7. What do you do, or want to do when you’re angry?
8. What will you never do for any amount of money?
9. Prince Harry’s biography is called ‘Spare’. What title would you choose for your own biography and what
chapters would you include in it?
10. What do you like most about yourself?
Questions about your partner’s worldview:
11. What does ideal world look like for you?
12. What does your perfect day look like?
13. If you could change anything right now, what would it be?
14. Name 5 things you can’t imagine your life without.
15. What book or movie resembles your life story?
16. If you imagine life as a toy building set, what pieces are missing from your set, and what pieces are odd?
17. If you had the power to present all people with one quality, what would it be?
Questions about relationships:
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18. What people inspire you the most?
19. What people annoy you the most?
20. If you compare relationships with dancing, what dance would you choose?
21. What kind of relationship would you describe as unhealthy?
22. What are your most important conclusions form your past relationships?
23. Describe your ideal partner in 5 words.
24. What person would you be unable to make friends with?
25. If you were to come up with a set of relationship rules, what would you include in it?
It is important that you don’t just ask the questions, but listen to the answers and learn from them. Listening is your main task in this game. We also recommend that you carefully track your own emotions. Do you like what your partner is saying? How do you react to their words? Do you share their point of view? If not, how critical is it for you?
If you struggle to understand something in your partner’s answer, ask for clarifications. It is totally okay to ask them to clarify or explain something.
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